Basic Proposition:  Love and respect are gained by practicing self-sufficiency.

Habitual Focus of Attention: What others want from me.

What "Observers" tell us about themselves:

• They have a marked need for privacy;

• They limit intrusion from a world that wants too much from them;

• As a result, "Observers" hoard time, space, energy, knowledge and themselves;

• They detach from feelings and observe rather than participate; and,

• They are minimalists

"I think I feel..."