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Type Four: The Romantic |
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Basic Proposition: Others enjoy the happiness that I have been denied.
Habitual Focus of Attention: "Best" is what's absent.
What "Romantics" observe about themselves:
- There is a constant longing for the missing ingredient for personal happiness;
- Their focus is on the best of what's missing, what’s distant, and what's hard to get;
- The "ordinary" pales by comparison;
- There is a deeply felt abandonment that translates into a belief that "I am un- loveable”: and,
- "Romanitics" feel special and elite. Their suffering sets them apart from others.
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"I cannot imagine anyone envying me. By comparison, if I had what others had, then I would be more fulfilled and happy." |
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